Book Review: “Being Boss”
Book: Being Boss by Kathleen Shannon and Emily Thompson
Reviewer: Bobby Powers
My Thoughts: 8 of 10
Being Boss is part self-help book, part entrepreneurship manual. Shannon and Thompson share their experiences creating companies and living what they call a "boss" life. As described below, the "being boss" lifestyle has less to do with managing a team of people than it does with managing priorities and bringing your full self to work. The authors' writing is vulnerable and relatable, which makes for an easy read. Shannon and Thompson also provide numerous personal exercises to help the reader identify personal values, priorities, and goals. Being Boss is a practical resource for anyone interested in improving their own business or doubling down on their "side hustle."
Takeaways from the Book
What Is “Being Boss”?
- “Being boss is about knowing what you want and being unapologetic about it. It’s about being who you are, nurturing your talents, and sharing them with the world. Being boss means doing the work to get you to where you want to be, even when it’s hard or when no one understands.”
- “Being boss is living what you love, every day and in every way that you can.”
- “The word ‘boss’ might make you think of someone who is in charge of a team of employees, but when we talk about being boss, we’re talking about an attitude of owning who you are and being intentional about actively creating the work and life you want to be living, and the impact you want to have on the world.”
- “Being boss is being accountable to my own values and vision above anything else. It means I wake up in the morning with a plan no one else is going to hold me accountable to, but that I choose to execute like my life is on the line. Because it is.” -Caroline Donahue
Doing the Work
- “Doing the work is what makes you look like an overnight success ten years later.”
- “Our motto and the thing we say every time we sign off our podcast is ‘Do the work; be boss.’ The two go hand in hand: doing the work comes first, and being boss is a product of that work. Doing the work is everything that happens between the wanting and the having. It’s the little steps that take you from point A to point B. It’s not grand flourishes of awesome; it’s the daily grind that moves your forward. In fact, the work is the most un-Instagrammable part of the boss process.”
- “With creative work, it’s your duty to do work that you believe in. Work that brings you joy. Work that allows you to express yourself in the best way(s) you can...You need to spread your soul’s message far and wide through whatever medium you have at your disposal. If you don’t, you’re wasting your talents. You’re not fulfilling your destiny. You’re putting a stopper on your potential for happiness. By embodying your creativity, you’re taking the first step toward living what you love.”
- “Your goals, minus your doubts, equal your reality.” -Ralph Marston
- “You need both the vision and the hustle. You need a big picture and a step-by-step plan. You need work and you need rest. You need structure and you need flexibility. You need community and you need competition. Your capacity to live in the tension of the ‘and’—and your ability to recognize when to push and when to pull—is what will make you a creative, productive, and happier boss.”
- “The secret to finding some balance between life and work is to pair your work hustle with life hustle. Life hustle is all the things you’re working hard for, and sadly it’s the part of the puzzle that most people push aside because work leaves them too tired and a Netflix binge is just easier. When you’re done with work for the day, your work is not yet done—if you’re hustling out your life, you will continue to nurture your relationships, throw down on that passion project (not for profit but for fun), and go on epic adventures. Of all the things that you do, create, launch, and make, your life hustle will always be the hardest but also the most rewarding."
Establishing Boundaries
- “If we all have the same struggles, then how do some people succeed while others spin their wheels? The answer is simple: the ones who succeed have set up healthy boundaries in their lives that help them discern where best to put their time, energy, and money—their most valuable resources.”
- “Boundaries are the lines we draw to contain what we want to cultivate and to protect what’s important. Try to think of your boundaries as a fence around your garden. Having a clear boundary not only helps you focus your efforts and have a high impact in a concentrated area but also keeps out unwanted pests and critters. Decide what you want to nourish and grow in your own garden, but also identify what fertilizes or nourishes your garden and what poses a potential threat to the things you're trying to keep safe.”
- “Values alone are only ideas, but when you use them to guard your boundaries, you give them purpose—you allow your values to shape your life, to define where and how you spend your time, energy, and money.”
- “Setting boundaries and identifying rules is the first active step in embracing being your own boss.”
Creativity and Productivity
- “Think about the last time you came up with a really big idea. I bet that it didn’t happen during your scheduled work hours with your eyes glued to your laptop. You probably struck gold while going for a walk, taking a shower, or after a nice long nap. Our brains don’t like feeling like caged animals—they are at their most creative when we let them out to play!” -Amy Kuretsky
- “Don’t trade sleep for work...Sleep is a necessary break for our body to do much-needed cleanup work. It’s during this time that our brains are able to form new connections and pathways, as well as get rid of old data. This deep clean helps us solidify any new learning and makes the much-needed space for new creative thoughts to arise.” -Amy Kuretsky
Questions to Ask Yourself About Priorities
- Is this the best use of my time?
- What’s most important right now?
- What do I want to be known for?
- What is my deadline? What needs to happen next?
Practical Tips to Protect What You Create
From a legal perspective, there are many potential pitfalls to avoid when choosing your business name. Below are some thoughts from the authors’ lawyer, Autumn Witt Boyd.
- “Avoid names that are descriptive, such as ‘Jane’s Healthy Cookies’ for a bakery, ‘The Complete Personal Branding Guide’ for a personal branding course, or ‘Intuitive Life Coaching’...In the U.S., these kinds of names are not protected by trademark law until you’ve used them for long enough that they are well recognized (usually for at least five years). So if someone copies the name, you can’t do anything legally to stop them until the brand is very well established.”
- “Location-based names, like ‘Chattanooga Pizza Company,’ fall into this category as well, as does using your last name, or ‘surname,’ so ‘Smith’s Web Design Shop’ is not the best choice. Names that are generic also can’t be protected because they just name the thing, such as ‘The Tire Store’ or ‘Smartphone.’ In the U.S., these kinds of names are never protected by trademark law, so if someone copies the name, you don’t have a legal way to make them stop or change their name.”
- “I do three (business name) searches for my clients: (1) A Google search for the same and similar names. (2) A search of the business registry database for the state where the business is located. (3) A search of the U.S. Patent and Trademark TESS database. Because trademark law is meant to prevent customer confusion, searching only for the exact name won’t ensure that you’re in the clear. You should search for alternate spellings and similar words that mean the same thing.”
- “Disclaimer: This is information only, and should not be relied upon as legal advice. All information is based on U.S. intellectual property laws.”
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